If you need to talk to someone right now
| Helpline | For | Contact |
|---|---|---|
| Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) | 24-hour crisis support, in Mandarin too | 1767 · CareText (WhatsApp) 9151 1767 |
| National mindline | National mental health helpline & textline, 24 hours | 1771 |
| IMH Emergency Hotline | 24-hour psychiatric emergency line | 6389 2003 / 6389 2004 |
| National CARE Hotline | 24-hour emotional support | 1800 202 6868 |
| Emergency Services | Immediate danger to life | 995 |
See Suicide Prevention & Support Singapore for more on supporting someone at risk. The rest of this guide is for what happens after a death has already occurred.
1. The police investigation
In Singapore, any death by suicide is investigated by the police to establish identity and cause of death. This is standard procedure, not a sign of suspicion.
What you need to do: report the death to a police officer if it hasn't already been reported. Leave the body alone — do not move it unless you've been authorised to. Cooperate with the Investigating Officer (IO) assigned to your case; they may ask you to help locate documents like the deceased's NRIC, and will likely interview you and family members to understand the circumstances.
You have the right to request that the investigation be conducted sensitively. It's completely reasonable to say something like: "This is very difficult for us. Please conduct the investigation with care to avoid adding to our distress," or to mention specific cultural or religious practices you'd like considered.
2. Deciding on a Coroner's Inquiry
A Coroner's Inquiry (CI) is not automatic for every suicide death in Singapore. If you'd like one held, you can let the Investigating Officer know during the police investigation — but the final decision on whether to hold one rests with the Coroner.
There's no universally right choice here. Some families find the hearing (which is open to the public) distressing to sit through while already grieving. Others who didn't request one have later regretted not having that clarity. If you do go ahead with a CI, follow up with the officer for the hearing date.
3. Registering the death
All deaths in Singapore must be registered within 24 hours, or as soon as practically possible. Before visiting the mortuary, you'll need to submit the deceased's identification documents (e.g. NRIC) and your own to the Investigating Officer.
After the Coroner releases the body, you may claim it from Mortuary@HSA (Block 9, Singapore General Hospital) — the IO will guide you on the exact process, and you may be asked to formally identify the body.
Once released, download the digital death certificate from the My Legacy portal using Singpass, within 30 days. Keep a copy — you'll need it for the funeral, closing bank accounts, and most of what follows.
4. Planning the funeral
Once you have the death certificate, you're ready to contact a funeral director. Kenneth coordinates funerals directly — collecting the body from the mortuary, arranging embalming if needed, setting up the wake, and handling burial or cremation — rather than just referring you elsewhere. WhatsApp +65 9112 1226, no pressure, whenever you're ready.
Things worth thinking through before you commit to anything: your budget, the venue, how many days, and any religious requirements. If the death happened overseas, check whether the funeral company offers repatriation.
If you're planning to hold the wake at an HDB void deck, you can book online via LifeSG or get a permit through your Town Council. If the wake needs to run longer than 7 days from the date of death, you'll need separate written permission from NEA.
Talking to others about it
Telling people how your loved one died is its own difficult task, separate from the admin. You're not obligated to explain anything to anyone before you're ready. Some phrases that suicide loss survivors have found useful: "I'll share more with you when I feel ready," "It's still too soon to discuss how they passed away," or simply "Thanks for checking in, but I'm not ready to share." You can also choose to say nothing at all.
If someone close to you died by suicide and you just need a community that understands this specifically — not a therapist, just people who get it — Caring for Life is there too. They're a Singapore charity built around suicide prevention and support, and they're one phone call or website visit away.
The non-urgent tasks
Once the urgent matters above are handled, there's a longer list that can wait — closing accounts, settling bills, transferring ownership of assets, and applying for Letters of Administration or Probate if needed. None of this has to happen in the first weeks. One suicide loss survivor quoted in SOS's guide put it well: "I don't do everything within the same few months, I spread it into years... don't be too quick to make a decision."
See Digital Accounts After Death Singapore and Cancel Subscriptions After Death Singapore for the practical side of this, whenever you're ready for it.
💡 Tip
Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) publishes a free, more detailed guidebook covering everything on this page plus a full non-urgent tasks checklist, written together with suicide loss survivors. Read the SOS Death Administrative Matters Handbook (PDF).
